Love for life

So finally it begins...!! I have started blogging....There is too much stuff, don't know where to start from...so basically my favorite topic...Let's start with love...

Have tried to find love so much...exactly what is this? Why people are made for it...! Almost every writer, poet, painter try to catch d feeling at least once in their life span...basically I found two types of it... the first one is what we have desired from the opposite person and another one is what we get from another person...

Let's start from d first one. At some point, e all desire something about love. Doesn't matter it's about our family love or friends or the one, your life Mate. But we desire something. How will it be? What will they do for us? Some expectations one can say Expectations always hurts, so it is painful to love. Because when we desire for something and we don't get it, it hurts. 

Then you will wonder what about the second one. Yeah well, when there are no expectations from anyone and even if you get a drop you will be happy. Suppose your parents got something for you or your friends suddenly come to see you or you get a beautiful life partner, you will feel happiness at its top. This is painless because you didn't expect anything from anyone and still you get something.

Let's talk about one simple example. When a poor child suddenly gets some food even if he didn't expect it then that smile on his face will be more joyful than ever and while there is a rich child asking for iPhone and he gets android he will be sad. even if some people don't get enough food for life and that rich kid's life is way better than that. He will not be happy. This is how expectations hurt for love.

No doubts we all seek for love but I read this sentence when I was kid

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Meaning:  nobody's love is less, our expectations are high.

Love is fully grown trust. When you accept anybody in the way they are is the first step of love. Because it is not easy to accept anyone with all their bad sides. 

Stop expecting start loving what you get! how you get..! I am pretty sure that you will be happier then you were.